Contemplating if you’ve Found “The One”: A Fun Relationship Test!
Are you wondering if you’ve met your lobster (cue Friends reference)? This lighthearted quiz might just help you shed some light!
Instructions: Choose the answer that best reflects your relationship.
- Movie night: (a) Popcorn for you, horror flicks for them (3 pts) (b) Rom-com marathon, snuggles included (5 pts) (c) You compromise, animated adventure it is! (4 pts)
- Weekend mornings: (a) You both sleep in until noon (4 pts) (b) You’re up at sunrise, conquering errands (3 pts) (c) One sleeps in, the other makes breakfast (5 pts)
- Social media: (a) You rarely post together (2 pts) (b) Constant couple selfies (1 pt) (c) Occasional cute pics and inside jokes (4 pts)
- Fights: (a) You avoid them at all costs (2 pts) (b) They turn into dramatic yelling matches (1 pt) (c) You communicate openly and work through them (5 pts)
- Annoying habits: (a) They drive you crazy (1 pt) (b) You learn to ignore them (3 pts) (c) You find them endearing (5 pts)
- Finances: (a) Separate accounts, separate lives (2 pts) (b) Impulse splurges together (1 pt) (c) Open communication, budgeting as a team (4 pts)
- Long-distance: (a) Haven’t considered it (5 pts) (b) Dealbreaker (1 pt) (c) You’d make it work (4 pts)
- Future plans: (a) You haven’t discussed them (2 pts) (b) Completely different goals (1 pt) (c) Shared dreams and aspirations (5 pts)
- Friends and family: (a) Rarely see them together (2 pts) (b) They don’t get along (1 pt) (c) They love and support each other (4 pts)
- You can be completely yourself around them: (a) Not entirely (2 pts) (b) Sometimes (3 pts) (c) Absolutely! (5 pts)
- You trust them with: (a) Just the basics (2 pts) (b) Most things (3 pts) (c) Your deepest secrets (5 pts)
- You inspire each other to: (a) Not really (2 pts) (b) Be a better version of yourself (4 pts) (c) Pursue your wildest dreams (5 pts)
- You laugh together: (a) Occasionally (2 pts) (b) Often (4 pts) (c) All the time (5 pts)
- You miss them when they’re gone: (a) A little (2 pts) (b) A lot (4 pts) (c) Like a piece of you is missing (5 pts)
- Deep down, you know: (a) You’re not sure (2 pts) (b) You could be happy with someone else (3 pts) (c) You can’t imagine life without them (5 pts)
Key:
41-75 pts: Congratulations! You might have found your lobster (or soulmate, if that’s more your style). Your relationship seems built on a strong foundation of communication, trust, and shared values.
26-40 pts: Your relationship has potential! Keep fostering open communication and working together to build a strong bond.
1-25 pts: This relationship might require some reflection. Are your needs being met? Do your long-term goals align? Don’t be afraid to have honest conversations about the future.
Remember, this is just a fun quiz! Every relationship is unique. The most important thing is to feel happy, supported, and loved.
