{"id":183,"date":"2024-02-19T16:48:02","date_gmt":"2024-02-19T16:48:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swoonandspoon.com\/?p=183"},"modified":"2024-07-03T16:49:02","modified_gmt":"2024-07-03T16:49:02","slug":"contemplating-if-youve-found-the-one-a-fun-relationship-test","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swoonandspoon.com\/index.php\/2024\/02\/19\/contemplating-if-youve-found-the-one-a-fun-relationship-test\/","title":{"rendered":"Contemplating if you’ve Found “The One”: A Fun Relationship Test!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Are you wondering if you’ve met your lobster (cue Friends reference)? This lighthearted quiz might just help you shed some light!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instructions:<\/strong> Choose the answer that best reflects your relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. Movie night: (a) Popcorn for you, horror flicks for them (3 pts) (b) Rom-com marathon, snuggles included (5 pts) (c) You compromise, animated adventure it is! (4 pts)<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. Weekend mornings: (a) You both sleep in until noon (4 pts) (b) You’re up at sunrise, conquering errands (3 pts) (c) One sleeps in, the other makes breakfast (5 pts)<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  3. Social media: (a) You rarely post together (2 pts) (b) Constant couple selfies (1 pt) (c) Occasional cute pics and inside jokes (4 pts)<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  4. Fights: (a) You avoid them at all costs (2 pts) (b) They turn into dramatic yelling matches (1 pt) (c) You communicate openly and work through them (5 pts)<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  5. Annoying habits: (a) They drive you crazy (1 pt) (b) You learn to ignore them (3 pts) (c) You find them endearing (5 pts)<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  6. Finances: (a) Separate accounts, separate lives (2 pts) (b) Impulse splurges together (1 pt) (c) Open communication, budgeting as a team (4 pts)<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  7. Long-distance: (a) Haven’t considered it (5 pts) (b) Dealbreaker (1 pt) (c) You’d make it work (4 pts)<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  8. Future plans: (a) You haven’t discussed them (2 pts) (b) Completely different goals (1 pt) (c) Shared dreams and aspirations (5 pts)<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  9. Friends and family: (a) Rarely see them together (2 pts) (b) They don’t get along (1 pt) (c) They love and support each other (4 pts)<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  10. You can be completely yourself around them: (a) Not entirely (2 pts) (b) Sometimes (3 pts) (c) Absolutely! (5 pts)<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  11. You trust them with: (a) Just the basics (2 pts) (b) Most things (3 pts) (c) Your deepest secrets (5 pts)<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  12. You inspire each other to: (a) Not really (2 pts) (b) Be a better version of yourself (4 pts) (c) Pursue your wildest dreams (5 pts)<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  13. You laugh together: (a) Occasionally (2 pts) (b) Often (4 pts) (c) All the time (5 pts)<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  14. You miss them when they’re gone: (a) A little (2 pts) (b) A lot (4 pts) (c) Like a piece of you is missing (5 pts)<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  15. Deep down, you know: (a) You’re not sure (2 pts) (b) You could be happy with someone else (3 pts) (c) You can’t imagine life without them (5 pts)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Key:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    41-75 pts:<\/strong> Congratulations! You might have found your lobster (or soulmate, if that’s more your style). Your relationship seems built on a strong foundation of communication, trust, and shared values.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    26-40 pts:<\/strong> Your relationship has potential! Keep fostering open communication and working together to build a strong bond.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    1-25 pts:<\/strong> This relationship might require some reflection. Are your needs being met? Do your long-term goals align? Don’t be afraid to have honest conversations about the future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Remember, this is just a fun quiz!<\/strong> Every relationship is unique. The most important thing is to feel happy, supported, and loved.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Are you wondering if you’ve met your lobster (cue Friends reference)? This lighthearted quiz might just help you shed some light! Instructions: Choose the answer that best reflects your relationship. Key: 41-75 pts: Congratulations! You might have found your lobster (or soulmate, if that’s more your style). Your relationship seems built on a strong foundation…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[23],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/swoonandspoon.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/183"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/swoonandspoon.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/swoonandspoon.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swoonandspoon.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swoonandspoon.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=183"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/swoonandspoon.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/183\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":184,"href":"https:\/\/swoonandspoon.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/183\/revisions\/184"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/swoonandspoon.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=183"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swoonandspoon.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=183"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swoonandspoon.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=183"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}